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Is UFE the Best-Kept Secret for Treating Fibroids?

In the United States, an estimated 26 million women between ages 15 and 50 have uterine fibroids. However, many women aren’t aware that they have these usually noncancerous tumors. What’s more, even when they experience symptoms triggered by fibroids, such as heavy and prolonged bleeding, pelvic pain, and other health issues, many women perceive these to be a normal part of their menstrual cycle. Such was the case for Eugenia Buie, 43, a customer service representative, who was diagnosed with fibroids at age 21. Real Health talked to Buie about her journey with fibroids. The conversation has been lightly edited for clarity.

 

Real Health: Were you having symptoms when you were diagnosed with fibroids?

 

Eugenia Buie: At my first ob-gyn visit, my doctor said that she noticed I had fibroids. She said it wasn’t anything for me to really worry about and that they weren’t that big. I was given Loestrin birth control pills. My cycle was heavy, but I thought it was normal because all the women in my family had heavy cycles, so this wasn’t something I thought of as being uncommon. Also, we really didn’t talk much about that type of stuff. I let my mother know, and she said, “Just make sure you check on yourself often.”

 

Were any of your female family members ever diagnosed with fibroids as well?

 

In my late 30s, I found out that my older sister had fibroids. She ended up having a hysterectomy. We didn’t talk much about it. I knew she was in the hospital, but we really didn’t get in depth with the conversation.

 

What happened with the birth control pills?

 

I never took them, because the doctor told me there was nothing to worry about. That’s what stuck with me. Plus, I wasn’t the type of person who liked taking any form of medication or pills. At that point, it didn’t seem like something that I needed to do.

 

How did you learn that the symptoms you experienced during your menstrual cycle were not normal?

 

My cycle at that time was about seven days. When my cycle first started, I believe I was 9 years old, and it lasted about three days. During my teenage years, my cycle was five days. By the time I began seeing my ob-gyn, my cycle had increased to seven days, and the cramps were consistently painful. I also began having migraines and experiencing anxiety attacks. That is what caused me to wonder what was going on with my body overall. But I never knew these problems had anything to do with fibroids. I was told that I could not drink coffee. I was addicted to caffeine. No one said that the anxiety attacks had anything to do with fibroids. But later in life, I found out that they actually did.

 

I had begun passing out quite often; it became something that I would just brace myself for. It was no longer like a fear thing. It was more so to make sure I was in a space where I wouldn’t get hurt when I passed out. That’s how normal these anxiety attacks became. I used to work for a youth center. Once, we were on a college tour and meeting with a group of kids about what we were planning to do and where we were getting ready to go, and during the meeting, I passed out. Everybody was so nervous and scared, but for me, it was normal.

 

Another time, I got up to take my nephew to the bathroom and passed out while I was taking him to the bathroom. He was about 3 years old, and I became really fearful because 1) for him to see something like that happen at his age and 2) I could have hit my head on something. That really made me feel concerned that something was not right with me. But every time I would go to urgent care or when I went to the hospital, they would tell me something vague.

 

When did you experience a turning point in solving this mystery?

 

This year, after passing out yet again, I was told that I was dehydrated and given a full-spectrum blood workup. When I went to visit my ob-gyn, she called me the next day and told me that my test results had come back showing that my hemoglobin level was at a 3.6 [grams per deciliter]. [Editor’s note: The healthy range for a hemoglobin count for women is 11.6 to 15 grams per deciliter.] She told me that I needed to get someone to take me to the emergency room. She said, “I need you to go right now—you need to have a blood transfusion!” This took place in March 2021.

 

When I told them why I was at the ER, they put me in a room right away. That made me a little more panicky. At this point, I wondered, Am I dying? And so naturally, from all of this fear, an anxiety attack started to come on. When we sat with the doctor, the doctor said to me, “I don’t know how you’re still alive.” They gave me three units of blood, and the doctor stressed that I needed to do something about the blood loss caused by my fibroids.

 

She explained that the blood loss caused by the fibroids was causing me not to get enough oxygen to my brain, and this was causing the panic attacks. I never knew that fibroids could affect anybody that way. But, unfortunately, my doctor could no longer see me because my insurance had changed, so I had to find a different doctor.

 

During her search for a new ob-gyn, Buie experienced another panic attack, and her menstrual cycle lengthened to 25 days. Once again, she was forced to seek care at the ER. This facility was closer to her home and accepted her insurance, so she was able to schedule an appointment with a new doctor.

 

What happened at the first visit with your new ob-gyn?

 

A hysterectomy was the first thing she offered me. After I asked her if that procedure was the only option, she said I could have a myomectomy—another surgical procedure that removes only the fibroids and leaves your uterus intact. But the fibroids can return within five years. But I really didn’t want to have to deal with fibroids again.

 

Interestingly, during the time between the blood transfusion and my procedure, I happened to watch The Real Housewives of Atlanta. Coincidentally, this episode was the one about Cynthia Bailey’s experience with fibroids. The program showed her going to her doctor and talking about uterine fibroid embolization (UFE), a procedure used to shrink fibroids. In that episode, I noticed that after the treatment, she no longer had to struggle with this problem.

 

I had never heard of uterine fibroid embolization in my life, so I googled Cynthia Bailey’s UFE procedure and found a blog she wrote about it. After that, I began to research the procedure, so when my new ob-gyn mentioned a hysterectomy and a myomectomy, I asked her, “What about the UFE?” She looked at me as if she saw a ghost. The look on her face was like, How did you know about this? Who told you? It was like this was the best-kept secret. And so I’m looking back at her not talking; we’re having an eye conversation, right? Then she said, “Oh, that’s just not really the procedure I would recommend, and we don’t do that here. You would have to go somewhere else.”

 

So I asked her, “Do you know who does it?” She said, “You would have to go to a radiologist. I don’t really know, but maybe I can link you to someone.” She was definitely taken aback when I mentioned the procedure, and she strongly suggested that I have a hysterectomy because of my age. She said, “You’re 42 years old. You’re not really planning on having any children, are you?” I told her, “Well, I’m not sure. I may want to.” Then she repeated my age. I told her, “I know UFE is possible, and I don’t want to take away my reproductive function just in case I may want to have kids a little later.”

 

Then she told me that there was somebody that performed UFE in that location, so I asked her to give me as much information as she could. That’s how I ended up scheduling the UFE procedure despite only getting the other two treatment options offered to me. I felt like UFE was something that—for whatever reason—those doctors didn’t want people to know about. But I also felt that if Cynthia Bailey could come out on top and be well after this procedure and still have her uterus intact, I would give this a shot. Why are some doctors keeping this from us? Is it because doctors don’t benefit from this procedure, and so maybe that’s why they don’t want people to know about it? This is why I think that it’s very important for women to research all available options for fibroids treatment.

 

I researched UFE and found out that this procedure has been around since the 1990s. That’s almost 40 years, so why have doctors only just now began talking about UFE? Currently, everybody’s talking about fibroids, which is a beautiful thing. This procedure that shrinks uterine fibroids has been the best-kept secret. But I’m glad that the secret is finally out now.

 

How did you become an advocate for uterine fibroid awareness?

 

In July, the month that I had my procedure, I went to an event with my friend who invited me to this dinner that was being hosted by USA Fibroid Centers and the Fibroid Fighters. The following day, I went to a speaking engagement at a church, and I was able to share with the women there in just a few seconds that I had just had the procedure that they were talking about. I told them about the episode of The Real Housewives of Atlanta with Cynthia Bailey and how I ended up having the procedure and how great I felt. Staff from the USA Fibroid Centers were there as well, so we ended up having a conversation, and they asked me to join their team.  I joined them in August of 2022 and became a Fibroid Fighters ambassador. They ended up actually creating a show for me on Instagram where I go on live to talk to women on social media about fibroid awareness, share my story and discuss different things that they can do to address their fibroid problems. I advocate for them and let them know that there’s nothing to fear. We don’t fear fibroids; we fight them. Right now, I’ve been in this fight for almost a year.

 

Sited: Is UFE the Best-Kept Secret for Treating Fibroids? - Real Health (realhealthmag.com)

Fighter Feature: Eugenia Buie

Introduce yourself and don’t forget your name!

Hi, my name is Eugenia Buie, and I am a Fibroid Fighter, Survivor, and Ambassador!

What are you doing for Valentine’s? How does love interact with your everyday life?

It is a tradition that I take my niece and nephews out to dinner for Valentine’s Day every year for the past ten years. I’m proud to say that even though some of them are adults now, we still manage to keep our tradition and schedule our dates with our significant others later or on a different day. That brings me so much joy to know they honor our day.

What’s your first memory of suffering from fibroids? How old were you? What was it like?

My first memory was an ob-gyn visit, and I was going through routine pap; the doctor told me that I had a few small fibroids, but nothing to concern myself with, and she provided me with birth control pills. I didn’t sense the urgency in her voice, so I never bothered to open the prescription or even to inquire further. I believe I was about 21 years old at the time.

How did your life change when you were diagnosed with fibroids? What did you begin to notice?

I was aware of changes. I thought heavy cycles were normal, and I thought 5 to 7 days were normal. I became increasingly concerned. I never attributed passing out or the need for blood transfusion with having fibroids.

What do you wish you knew about fibroid treatments before becoming an ambassador? What treatment did you undergo, and what would you get if you could choose a treatment NOW?

I wish I knew the severity of fibroids earlier on, and I feel that would have given me the courage, information, and motivation to do something sooner. I was inspired by someone who  became a USA Fibroid Centers’ ambassador. I chose UFE and I would do it all over again without any hesitation.

Why is it important to talk about women’s health issues, including fibroids?

It’s extremely important to talk about women’s health and advocate for women to make healthy choices; and motivate those to take their health seriously to do something about their health urgently. I made it up in my mind to become a health advocate over a year ago. In the interim, I  experienced my very first blood transfusion, anxiety attacks, and the UFE procedure. All of that was enough to cause someone to be discouraged but it had the opposite effect. It propelled me to become a voice for the voiceless and an advocate for awareness.

As an Ambassador, what are you doing to advocate for fibroids?

As an Ambassador, I make sure that I provide content, information, and share the social media of other Fibroid Ambassadors. I was personally inspired to do an Instagram Takeover: “Girls, Let’s Chat”, where I discussed women’s health and fibroid awareness with my friends as guests. I continue to invite the audience in on our intimate conversations. I’ve had several Live chats on both Instagram, Facebook, and public speaking engagements at local churches, and I look forward to doing so much more!!!

"Show Me Your Scar"

“Suddenly, Jesus was standing there among them! “Peace be with you,” He said. As He spoke, He showed them the WOUNDS in His hands and His side. They were filled with joy…” John 20:19-20 NLT

We’ve all heard of the phrase “A Picture is worth a thousand words”. I think one of the greatest pictorial illustrations of all times is the photo of Jesus holding out His hand to accept anyone who wills to come to Him. What’s most powerful about the illustration is the proof of the scar in His hands. You see the scar tells the story and shows as proof that He is the one that was pierced but as promised, He rose from the dead and ascended into heaven so that all would have the chance at eternal life. It was because of His sacrifice and the proof of His scars that many til’ this day believe in Him. Just as the Savior showed His scars as a testimonial of His trial and triumph I also have a scar, that tells the story of my triumph. Now, I will admit that I am not Christ. No, I didn’t die to take on the sins of the world, but I too have a scar as proof of my suffering only to rise up and fulfill my purpose on the Earth. You all more than likely, know the story of the Savior and if you don’t well inbox me and allow me to introduce you to Him.

My story begins, over 20 years ago. I was told that I have anemia, and as a result, little small fibroids had began to develop in my uterus. At that time, the doctor said it was minor and nothing to worry or concerned about. Fast forward twenty plus years later, I receive a phone call from my OBGYN after my visit 2 days prior. As we were on the phone, she demanded that I rush to the emergency room right away and that I shouldn’t even drive. Fear gripped me in that moment, because of the urgency in her voice. So I immediately called up my friend for a ride to the emergency room. When I arrive I tell them my name, my ISSUE and my hemoglobin levels and they did not delay and took me to a room right away. I became even more nervous because I’ve never received or seen such a swift check in at a hospital in my life. I get to the room and I received a COVID-19 test and it was after that point that they drew my blood. The doctor came in to speak to me astonished and said it is amazing that I am even still alive. With a Hemoglobin level of 4.7 I could have passed out in the middle of the street or behind the wheel while driving. You see, the problem was, there wasn’t enough oxygen flowing. All of this time I had been experiencing years of anxiety attacks, fatigue, and passing out never able to identify the cause.

But this year 2021 after receiving 3 units of blood lying in that hospital bed I decided enough is enough. I researched and researched I did my homework and finally made my decision after my OBGYN presented me with options. I want to pause here, and say that the Uterine Fibroid Embolization procedure that I chose was foreign to me until I did some research on my own. However, it was also the last thing that I spoke to the doctor about. The first choice presented to me was a Hysterectomy, a majorly invasive surgery where they fully remove your uterus to rid you of any fibroid tissue; but the side effect is that you will never be able to give birth and you lose a major piece of your womanhood. Option 2 was the Myomectomy this too is a majorly invasive surgery that removes all visible and microscopic fibroids with the hope that all are located and removed and takes a healing process of up to 3 months. The thing is: the fibroids can return. I wasn’t willing to struggle with such a majorly invasive surgery with no guarantee that would cost me more than I could handle and leave me unable to financially care for myself in the process. I finally, [prayerfully] decided on the UFE procedure and it was the best decision I could have ever made. My healing process took 6 business days and the only proof or sign that I have of my 20 plus year struggle is the small mark from the piercing of my wrist. It is a scar that I show proudly and unapologetically. I suffered for years not feeling my best, so unable to be my best and now I am able to fully walk in my purpose and show and tell to all who will listen the story of how I received my own personal resurrection of my health and my life. Now when I go from city to city, and state to state with my pictorial illustration as my witness.. “They, who I encounter are “all filled with joy.”….

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Push Through The Pain!

Disclaimer & Moment of Truth: You May Never Stop Hurting, But Push Anyway! 

Many of you may have noticed I have been posting about staying active and doing workout challenges during the week. Last week, the day after my birthday, the workouts became increasingly challenging. (Mind you I worked out very vigorously on my birthday. I was just feeling so good to be alive I went beyond my regimen) But just a day later…I tried to do something as simple as a jumping jack and my left leg seemed like it completely gave out. I have been in many car accidents and it seems like after the last one my body has not been the same. I tried to push but the pain was too much to handle. I thought maybe I needed to take a break; I’ve been going for 5 out of 7 days a week for the past 5 weeks. In the process of me “taking it easy” my mindset began to shift. Like if I’m not working out, I might as well have some chips. When I knew that was the opposite of what I should be doing…But I was discouraged. The following day I could barely walk. I leaned on my right leg to get me through. After a while both legs became problematic, so I just stopped. I couldn’t bear the pain. You have no idea what this does to someone both psychologically and spiritually who use to move freely all of the time. I felt defeated. I started to play back moments of me dancing…half of my life a part of my ministry was to dance! To not have been able to move my legs without pain was weighing on me something awful.  

Monday came and I still felt great pain. However a distraction came that caused me not to be able to work a full day. I was extremely aggravated but in my heart I knew I needed to be mobile, to be active. I ended up at Kensico Dam and started walking. I was in agony as I walked and didn’t have the proper shoes on but I knew I needed to be active. It ended up raining but I felt like I had achieved something great. The next day I was active all day. I took a couple of walks in my neighborhood during my lunch break and that evening I took a walk again. I even climbed stairs that I was afraid to climb for fear of falling. But I pushed through despite my fear—and guess what? my leg NEVER stopped hurting!  But I still kept going...

Today, I convinced myself to do a full workout.  I tried to do squats but couldn’t bend my knee so I went to do sit-ups. I completed my sets tried to go back to squats I could barely make it through 5! So I went to another exercise. I completed all of my regimen and felt like I could do what my body told me I couldn’t. My persistence allowed me to do squats and jumping jacks 3 sets of 10 each! My leg never stopped hurting but I completed the task!

There are going to be some tough moments…Some moments where you have to make a decision to continue or to give up. Sometimes in continuing, it doesn’t get easier it actually gets harder! But that’s when your mind shifts!  You tell yourself I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength…He will prove Himself through you! Pain and all! The road never got easier.  But I had a mind to work!

When life throws you a curve ball that shocks your existence…take a moment…assess the situation…Plan to succeed and get back to completing what you originally started! 

I’m not where I want to be physically but because I’ve grown spiritually and mentally I was able to command my body to do what it felt like it could not do! 

When you wake up tomorrow…no matter what the day brings…REFUSE to quit!! There is so much purpose in YOUR determination! PUSH THROUGH THE PAIN!

The Trigger “Happy” Church

It’s unfortunate, we live in a day where people don’t believe in closure. Usually those same people don’t believe in opening either. Somehow that’s how we end up stuck in the middle; battling our pain silently while working “effectively.” 

What I have come to realize is your past will walk with you, catch up to you, or meet you at the finish line if—you don’t face it and deal with it. To everything there is a beginning and an end. We can sensationalize and emotionalize our healing process but doing that…as great as it may feel at that time only last for a moment! It’s a temporary fixture to a permanent matter. 

You may not be one who continues the cycle of your pain with your actions but if you harbor unforgiveness, bitterness, and disdain for someone who you “feel” has hurt you without resolve, communication or reasoning, that person has become a TRIGGER to a past unresolved.

Reflecting over my life, a lot of my painful experiences happened at the hands of people that went to church just like I did.  A lot of the pain I caused and inflicted was to the people I churched with. It’s a never/ending cycle. 

Victims that do not get healed become victimizers sometimes unaware and unknowingly to them. Sometimes you become what you hated. May not be on the same level but sometime it’s through seeking power, control, and domination.  The need to feel superior and making sure others are subservient to you shouldn’t be a goal…but when you have been dominated, suppressed and treated like less than you innately seek to be what tried to destroy you. Anyone that stands against your defensive mechanism of power becomes a trigger and you cancel them or you ostracize them. This is not new. This is a cycle. A vicious, ugly, dirty cycle.  As holy as we claim to be. As chaste as we claim to be. If our heart is wicked and hateful all of us are still going to be judged just like the most egregious sinner you can think of. God will judge your heart!  He’s judging mine every single day. 

That’s why I pursue peace. Not because I feel like it! I have wronged and I have been wronged!  But my heart is set up different! I love God! Quite honestly, I’m not one who fasts for 40 days and 40 nights. I’m not one who reads my Bible every day.  I meditate on scriptures day and night and I try my best to live the Word. My heart can’t be cluttered with unforgiveness when God chose to use me through my heart posture. So I forgive the seemingly unforgettable. Because I love God!

If you love Him… It’s timeout for doing “church with hurt”

Shouting and Rolling your eyes...

Praising and not Speaking...

Praying and not Forgiving...

Gossiping and not Reasoning...

Who are we?!

Church we need healing.  We can’t be presented like this.

I will not be silent.